Feeling busy? Truth bomb + tough love: We’re ALL busy. It’s kind of a fact of life these days, right? Between kids, jobs, houses, bills, kid activities, church, community activities…the list could go on and on, and often that’s just the tip of this busy iceberg.
With all the busyness that life often brings, it can be hard to find (or make time) for the things that help make us healthier, happier, and thriving. AKA finding time to exercise.


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But, just because we’re all busy, and just because some days can feel like a whirlwind of activity where the only thing we want to do once we reach the end of it is SIT DOWN, our workouts don’t have to become nonexistent. There is a way to have them co-exist with alllll the other things in our often chaotic lives. And since we get such great physical and mental returns on any time invested in exercising, it’s so dang important that we make it a priority even among all the other priorities on our never-ending to-do list!
How do you exercise when you have no time? By taking a timeout.
Remember as a kid when you’d get in trouble for something and your parents would send you to another room for a timeout? It was a way to remove you from a stressful situation so you could get past the emotions, calm down, and return as a much more centered version of yourself. What if, as adults, we learned from those timeouts, removed our initial negative connotation of them, and used them as a positive reinforcement and a tactic to help us remember to put ourselves first?
I call this the Ten Minute Timeout: No matter how busy, crazy, or overwhelming your day may feel, you can find ten minutes for yourself. Walk away from the pile of laundry, the to-do list, the work emails—just for ten minutes—and use those minutes as a way of doing something positive. This could be doing a quick ten minute workout, journaling or meditating for ten minutes, sitting outside in the sunshine, or dancing off the stress in the middle of your kitchen (ignoring those dishes piling up, while you’re at it). It can honestly be whatever you want. It’s something you need to do for yourself.
Why 10 minutes? Ten minutes is often easier to commit to than 60. And they’re a great way to recharge and come back to a situation with brighter eyes, a clearer vision, and a fuller heart.


Top tips to exercise or take a ten minute timeout for yourself:
- Prepare the night before. Set out your clothes, shoes, water bottle, or anything else you’ll need. If you are planning on swinging by the gym, make sure there’s gas in your car. There’s no worse decision as an adult than deciding you’ll “fill up tomorrow.” Amiright?! Preparation alleviates a lot of potential reasons for not working out.
- Wear your workout clothes, except to work, of course, unless that’s allowed! I put on my workout clothes first thing in the morning because it not only reminds me to exercise, but on those crazy busy days, I’m ready to take advantage of every free minute to do a little something. (Hello, Ten Minute Timeout!)
- Get creative. Even a few minutes here and there throughout the day can add up to some great workout time: Run up and down the stairs, do walking lunges, walk instead of drive, throw in a few push ups or burpees, do squats while you’re on the phone, do crunches while you tickle your baby’s toes…get creative!
- Try Something New. Don’t get stuck in a rut by doing the same thing over and over again. It’s easy to skip something when we feel bored with it, right? Variety results in not only stronger muscles (and more calories burned), but a more enjoyable workout too!
- Plan. Have a plan A. And a plan B. And some days you might even need a plan Z. Make a list of workouts so when you’re in a time crunch, you don’t have to think about what to do.
- Be flexible. Constant change is the name of the game at our house. In fact, often the only constant in our life is change! Do the best you can, when you can, and give yourself a pat on the back for doing so. Even a “bad” workout is better than no workout.
- Reward yourself. Hey, it works for kids, so why not for us too? Instead of a chore chart, make an exercise chart. You can even use some cute stickers. And make the reward so fabulous you’ll want to exercise regularly to earn it!
- Trade with a partner or friend. Not only will you get your workout in, but you’ll be helping someone else do the same.
- Include the kids. Jump rope, play ball, run around the block, play hopscotch, teach them your favorite exercises, and have them do the same for you. For infants and toddlers, put them in the stroller and let them become part of your workout or even extra weight to lift! Be an example of the importance of exercise.
When you make the time to exercise regularly, I promise you’ll be happier, more confident, and more productive in all the areas of your life. Ready to commit to your first Ten Minute Timeout? Do it and then comment below and let me know how it went!
xo,
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The Procrastinator’s Guide to Transforming Your Time Management Skills
96 Responses
You guys make me wantto make myself a better version of myself, when I first saw you was on the show and I immediately felt a connection, I felt that you really cared for peoples healths, and I only wanted better for myself after that!
Hi Heidi I was just wondering if you could help me try different exercises. I am new and never really exercised much. So having a hard time figuring out what to do.
Heidi, what do you think of the PACE workout for busy Moms?
Yes it is so hard! I have 4 kids, a husband gone 20 days a month, little one is not in school yet and I always feel exhausted! But I like it, can’t wait for me time and get back to an exercise routine. Exercise makes me feel soo good, why don’t I go?
I am so glad you shared this! I work full-time so when I get home and only have a couple hours to see my baby I feel guilty leaving her to work-out. It is great that you talked about including the kids. I love to go on runs and take my daughter in the jogging stroller.
I am lucky that the hospital that I work at offers its employee a free gym to use, but after working 12 hours the last thing on my mind was often working out. I knew I needed to, but would make excuses day in and day out, finally I started I told myself 10 minutes and then I could go home, well what do you know I got on the treadmill and next thing you know I did 30 minutes. I am feeling better and better, somedays it is still hard, but I just keep going.
I try to do put on workout clothes when I’m not going to work. If I can’t workout per say then I try to at least walk a lot or dance on the Wii with my daughter
Thank you for all the great ideas..you are the best
Wow I totally admire you for that! 😉 But I just can’t imagine me with small kid in our gym, everybody would look at me that I’m just a freak, you know. Maybe I should start a whole new trend for mothers! I just have to try it once at least, and I’ll see 🙂
For me it’s no option, to say I don’t have the time to exercise! If people have time to read a book, go shopping and time to stay lazy on the couch then in my opinion they have all the time in the world to do some exercise. I just did mine early in the morning, what is. Better way to start your day with a fresh start! Let’s go for it