Put Yourself in Timeout: Top Ways to Find Time For Yourself + Fitness

Feeling busy? Truth bomb + tough love: We’re ALL busy. It’s kind of a fact of life these days, right? Between kids, jobs, houses, bills, kid activities, church, community activities…the list could go on and on, and often that’s just the tip of this busy iceberg.

With all the busyness that life often brings, it can be hard to find (or make time) for the things that help make us healthier, happier, and thriving. AKA finding time to exercise.

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But, just because we’re all busy, and just because some days can feel like a whirlwind of activity where the only thing we want to do once we reach the end of it is SIT DOWN, our workouts don’t have to become nonexistent. There is a way to have them co-exist with alllll the other things in our often chaotic lives. And since we get such great physical and mental returns on any time invested in exercising, it’s so dang important that we make it a priority even among all the other priorities on our never-ending to-do list!

How do you exercise when you have no time? By taking a timeout.

Remember as a kid when you’d get in trouble for something and your parents would send you to another room for a timeout? It was a way to remove you from a stressful situation so you could get past the emotions, calm down, and return as a much more centered version of yourself. What if, as adults, we learned from those timeouts, removed our initial negative connotation of them, and used them as a positive reinforcement and a tactic to help us remember to put ourselves first?

I call this the Ten Minute Timeout: No matter how busy, crazy, or overwhelming your day may feel, you can find ten minutes for yourself. Walk away from the pile of laundry, the to-do list, the work emails—just for ten minutes—and use those minutes as a way of doing something positive. This could be doing a quick ten minute workout, journaling or meditating for ten minutes, sitting outside in the sunshine, or dancing off the stress in the middle of your kitchen (ignoring those dishes piling up, while you’re at it). It can honestly be whatever you want. It’s something you need to do for yourself.

Why 10 minutes? Ten minutes is often easier to commit to than 60. And they’re a great way to recharge and come back to a situation with brighter eyes, a clearer vision, and a fuller heart.

Top tips to exercise or take a ten minute timeout for yourself:

  • Prepare the night before. Set out your clothes, shoes, water bottle, or anything else you’ll need. If you are planning on swinging by the gym, make sure there’s gas in your car. There’s no worse decision as an adult than deciding you’ll “fill up tomorrow.” Amiright?! Preparation alleviates a lot of potential reasons for not working out.
  • Wear your workout clothes, except to work, of course, unless that’s allowed! I put on my workout clothes first thing in the morning because it not only reminds me to exercise, but on those crazy busy days, I’m ready to take advantage of every free minute to do a little something. (Hello, Ten Minute Timeout!)
  • Get creative. Even a few minutes here and there throughout the day can add up to some great workout time: Run up and down the stairs, do walking lunges, walk instead of drive, throw in a few push ups or burpees, do squats while you’re on the phone, do crunches while you tickle your baby’s toes…get creative!
  • Try Something New. Don’t get stuck in a rut by doing the same thing over and over again. It’s easy to skip something when we feel bored with it, right? Variety results in not only stronger muscles (and more calories burned), but a more enjoyable workout too!
  • Plan. Have a plan A. And a plan B. And some days you might even need a plan Z. Make a list of workouts so when you’re in a time crunch, you don’t have to think about what to do.
  • Be flexible. Constant change is the name of the game at our house. In fact, often the only constant in our life is change! Do the best you can, when you can, and give yourself a pat on the back for doing so. Even a “bad” workout is better than no workout.
  • Reward yourself. Hey, it works for kids, so why not for us too? Instead of a chore chart, make an exercise chart. You can even use some cute stickers. And make the reward so fabulous you’ll want to exercise regularly to earn it!
  • Trade with a partner or friend. Not only will you get your workout in, but you’ll be helping someone else do the same.
  • Include the kids. Jump rope, play ball, run around the block, play hopscotch, teach them your favorite exercises, and have them do the same for you. For infants and toddlers, put them in the stroller and let them become part of your workout or even extra weight to lift! Be an example of the importance of exercise.

When you make the time to exercise regularly, I promise you’ll be happier, more confident, and more productive in all the areas of your life. Ready to commit to your first Ten Minute Timeout? Do it and then comment below and let me know how it went!


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96 Responses

  1. I’d like to add my own tip. Pick something with a high Fun Factor. I find I am much more likely to make time for a workout if it’s something I really enjoy. A workout dvd with great music or walk/run intervals when I take my dogs out – something that is more like play than work. Chris’ 9 Minute Intervals are great for this because you get to compete against the clock and hey – it’s only 9 minutes!

  2. Great Tips! Time is of the essence in my house! Waking up at 4am to be to work by 6. To get off at 330 then after I get home with the little one, exercise is the last thing on my mind. I NEED to change that!

  3. Awesome tips! I’m going to set up multiple reminders on my calendar to help keep me thinking about exercising. That pop up on my phone will be a good excuse to stop what I’m doing and excercise. Thanks!

  4. Great tips! I often forget to reward myself. Feeling better after a workout usually is reward enough, but who doesn’t love a little extra something just for me. Non food rewards are fantastic!

  5. I put my fitness in my schedule so it’s just like anything else I have to get done for the day. I wouldn’t skip a dr’s appt because I was tired or busy.

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