Put Yourself in Timeout: Top Ways to Find Time For Yourself + Fitness

Feeling busy? Truth bomb + tough love: We’re ALL busy. It’s kind of a fact of life these days, right? Between kids, jobs, houses, bills, kid activities, church, community activities…the list could go on and on, and often that’s just the tip of this busy iceberg.

With all the busyness that life often brings, it can be hard to find (or make time) for the things that help make us healthier, happier, and thriving. AKA finding time to exercise.

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But, just because we’re all busy, and just because some days can feel like a whirlwind of activity where the only thing we want to do once we reach the end of it is SIT DOWN, our workouts don’t have to become nonexistent. There is a way to have them co-exist with alllll the other things in our often chaotic lives. And since we get such great physical and mental returns on any time invested in exercising, it’s so dang important that we make it a priority even among all the other priorities on our never-ending to-do list!

How do you exercise when you have no time? By taking a timeout.

Remember as a kid when you’d get in trouble for something and your parents would send you to another room for a timeout? It was a way to remove you from a stressful situation so you could get past the emotions, calm down, and return as a much more centered version of yourself. What if, as adults, we learned from those timeouts, removed our initial negative connotation of them, and used them as a positive reinforcement and a tactic to help us remember to put ourselves first?

I call this the Ten Minute Timeout: No matter how busy, crazy, or overwhelming your day may feel, you can find ten minutes for yourself. Walk away from the pile of laundry, the to-do list, the work emails—just for ten minutes—and use those minutes as a way of doing something positive. This could be doing a quick ten minute workout, journaling or meditating for ten minutes, sitting outside in the sunshine, or dancing off the stress in the middle of your kitchen (ignoring those dishes piling up, while you’re at it). It can honestly be whatever you want. It’s something you need to do for yourself.

Why 10 minutes? Ten minutes is often easier to commit to than 60. And they’re a great way to recharge and come back to a situation with brighter eyes, a clearer vision, and a fuller heart.

Top tips to exercise or take a ten minute timeout for yourself:

  • Prepare the night before. Set out your clothes, shoes, water bottle, or anything else you’ll need. If you are planning on swinging by the gym, make sure there’s gas in your car. There’s no worse decision as an adult than deciding you’ll “fill up tomorrow.” Amiright?! Preparation alleviates a lot of potential reasons for not working out.
  • Wear your workout clothes, except to work, of course, unless that’s allowed! I put on my workout clothes first thing in the morning because it not only reminds me to exercise, but on those crazy busy days, I’m ready to take advantage of every free minute to do a little something. (Hello, Ten Minute Timeout!)
  • Get creative. Even a few minutes here and there throughout the day can add up to some great workout time: Run up and down the stairs, do walking lunges, walk instead of drive, throw in a few push ups or burpees, do squats while you’re on the phone, do crunches while you tickle your baby’s toes…get creative!
  • Try Something New. Don’t get stuck in a rut by doing the same thing over and over again. It’s easy to skip something when we feel bored with it, right? Variety results in not only stronger muscles (and more calories burned), but a more enjoyable workout too!
  • Plan. Have a plan A. And a plan B. And some days you might even need a plan Z. Make a list of workouts so when you’re in a time crunch, you don’t have to think about what to do.
  • Be flexible. Constant change is the name of the game at our house. In fact, often the only constant in our life is change! Do the best you can, when you can, and give yourself a pat on the back for doing so. Even a “bad” workout is better than no workout.
  • Reward yourself. Hey, it works for kids, so why not for us too? Instead of a chore chart, make an exercise chart. You can even use some cute stickers. And make the reward so fabulous you’ll want to exercise regularly to earn it!
  • Trade with a partner or friend. Not only will you get your workout in, but you’ll be helping someone else do the same.
  • Include the kids. Jump rope, play ball, run around the block, play hopscotch, teach them your favorite exercises, and have them do the same for you. For infants and toddlers, put them in the stroller and let them become part of your workout or even extra weight to lift! Be an example of the importance of exercise.

When you make the time to exercise regularly, I promise you’ll be happier, more confident, and more productive in all the areas of your life. Ready to commit to your first Ten Minute Timeout? Do it and then comment below and let me know how it went!

xo,

Related reading:

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My 10-Minute Anywhere Workout || Bodyweight Moves for Beginners and Advanced
10 Minute Upper Body Workout
A Lotta Tabata || 4-Minute Total Body Toning Workouts
The Procrastinator’s Guide to Transforming Your Time Management Skills

96 Responses

  1. My husband’s in the military and we’re moving to Hawaii in October. We have to sen one car over a month ahead so he’ll be using mine to go to work. I go to the gym three to four days a week and I won’t be able to for a whole month. I work out at home with my weights every other day but they have to be packed up too. I guess I’ll stick to sit ups and squats

  2. Love this post. I had an revelation last night when I was telling someone about my struggles with working out and the stresses of my job which is disaster related. We tell everyone to make a kit and have a plan I need to take that mantra into my own health and fitness goals and have a plan for when a kink get thrown into my plans.

  3. If I don’t have the time during the day, I go for a walk with my dogs and kids! I try to walk at least 1 hour per night. It helped me shed pounds over the last year.

  4. Great way to get more time in if you can get on a schedule like this. I have two kids and the gym isn’t always open for care for my kids…that’s the hard part for me. I need the gym setting otherwise the distractions of the home get in the way of working out and I lose my battle with fitting exercise in. So now it is based solely on willpower and dedication and it takes a while to get there buy reading your posts and watching your husband on Extreme makeover: weight loss edition motivates and keeps me on track! Thanks!

  5. As someone who is always trying to find time for herself, this was very helpful. I now manage to squeeze exercise in even if it is only for 5 minutes at a time. I find that I have time to exercise as long as it is for short periods. Soon I will be able to find a longer stretch of time to exercise.

  6. Love this post! As a new mom with a 8 month old baby, it is really inspiring. One of my biggest challenges is finding time for exercise in between taking care of baby/hubby/house/myself with all it entails. I am in the process of turning my life around and become a healthier, better me, and this post really helps.

  7. I love this blog. It took me a long time to learn to be prepared but I now have a HUGE gym bag and I make sure everything I might possibly need is in there. I also put on my workout clothes first thing on weekends. These things really help. I do find other “excuses” for not getting in my exercise but I think if I make a Plan B and Z, that will really help. The idea about a reward chart – a visual reward – sounds great!

  8. Great Advice! We have the time issue in our house and sometimes I don’t get my workout in till later in the evening when my children are in bed but I try my hardest to make sure that I get it done.

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